




My Mom made it through her first chemo experience. It was an emotional day. It is really hard to imagine all these poisons being pumped into your body. My Mom has always been healthy and has never put anything into her body that would be harmful to it, so this was really difficult. She was pretty light headed and felt a little off but she did amazing. Haylie and I drove to St George to be with her. We were only their for a few hours but I would not have missed it for the world. My Mom has been such a trooper through all this. She has so many love ones and friends right beside her to Love & support her. We are all still having a hard time believing this is real and we are just so sad that our mom has to go through all of this, but at the same time I am just so overwhelmed by the outpouring of prayers and genuine concerns for My Mother. I have the best friends that are always thinking of my family. I don't know what I would do with out all of you. xoxox
I am also grateful for the quick "road trip" that Haylie and I got to take. She is so funny, we laugh a lot and she talked my ear off the entire time. I enjoyed our time together. she is such a sweetie and I can not believe how fast she is growing up. She is beautiful inside and out ~
Thursday, October 30, 2008
1st Chemo Day ~
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Happy Birthday Mallorie ~





Our sweet Mallorie turned 10 on the 26Th. She is such a sweetheart. Mallorie is very talented and does very well in school. She is so special to us and we would be lost without her. It is sometimes hard around our house with 3 girls, they are all very competitive and always making sure that equal attention is given. It's nice when their Birthdays roll around and they get a day all about them, well it's more like a few days that are ALL about them! I hang a Birthday sign and put candy all over their door on their Birthday and they get to choose the activities we do for their special day. Mallorie chose to go to Peter Piper Pizza then of course it would not be complete without seeing High School Musical 3! I'm pretty sure that was Daddy's favorite part! Anyhoo we had a blast together. The Lunt came to get pizza with us,the girls had so much fun. Mallorie has been asking for a bow for months and she finally got one! It is so stinkin cute and of course she is a natural1 She has also been asking for silky PJ's so we got some sweet pic of her in the PJ's shooting her pick camo bow. Mallorie would be so sad if I did not say that she is an avid animal lover and does not plan on ever shooting an animal, she just wants to be a target shooter! Bless her sweet heart! She gets that from her mother.
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U Go Girl ~



My girls are all rocking the good grades this year! Haylie made the honor roll and her school had a special awards Assembly. They handed out certificates and bumper stickers! I must say "I am a proud parent of an honor roll student at Fox Creek Jr High"! Way To Go Haylie!
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The Lunt Family Visit ~





My super sassy sister came to visit last weekend with her smashingley cute family. We had so much fun! I'm not gonna lie, my sis and I are good times, we are non stop laughs! Our cute husbands just laugh at us and think we are nuts, don't let them fool you, they love every crazy piece of us!
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Haylie's Mother Daughter Night~



Haylie took me to her Mother Daughter Night for her YW activity, it was so much fun and I absolutely loved spending some one on one time with her. We spend so much time together as a family, but my girls are always begging for alone time. we had a fabulous dinner and then the girls put on a little fashion show. Super Cute!
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Me-N-Tiff ~

One of the many perks of working with my sister, is we went on a business trip together. We always have a blast where ever we are but, this trip was good times for sure! I don't see her as often as I used to since the move, so it was good to spend some time with her. We laughed, ate fabulous food, and soaked our worries away in the hot tub!.... Oh, and we worked a little too!
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Sunday, October 26, 2008
Mallorie's Fall Poem~

Mallorie LOVES to write and is so creative. She wrote this cute poem the other day and said I could post it on my blog.
Fall is like summer
without all the heat
Fall is the best
it's impossible to beat
Fall brings joy to all of our homes
We have to rake leaves with our fancy combs
Fall is the sound of crunchy leaves
that land upon my head
Fall brings inside the smell of the welcoming bread
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Thursday, October 23, 2008
~ Movie Quote ~

Ok, so I have wanted to do this forever but I just have not got around to it. Those of you that know me know that have a passion for quoting movies, ok it might be more like an annoying habit, but none the less I love it! Anyhoo my girls also share this passion along with SEVERAL members of my family. We are somewhat drawn to stupid humor type movies but I don't discriminate at all, everything is fair game. So I will post some of my favorite movie quotes and will see how many of you can name the movies! I know it does not take much to entertain me!
* "He is not pushing up daisies, He is dead!"
* "Would you like to have a roll in the Hay?"
* "Well if you were directly above him, how did you see them? Well you see, we were inverted. Bull $#!!. No really We were, it was great I got a great Polaroid of it"
* " Twins Bazle"
* "It makes me want a hot dog real bad"
* " Would it be to much to ask for a little precipitation"
* " I'm not a wench I'm your wife, but after what you just said I'm not sure if I want to be that anymore"
* " He was great in chair"
* "I gota be honest with ya, you smell like pure gasoline"
* " If you ain't first your last"
* "Winner winner chicken dinner"
These are just of few that make me laugh out loud every time. I'm pretty sure I'll be doing this again just because I have tears right now from remembering all these good times and you have no idea how bad I have needed to laugh myself into tears! Some of these movies have excellent, make your stomach hurt, quotes but I tried to keep it PG.
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Tuesday, October 21, 2008
"Eat it up,Wear it out, Make Do, or Do Without" ~
My girlfriend e-mailed this to me and I loved it, so I thought I would share. I know it is long but it worth reading if you have some time. ~
President Boyd K. Packer, President of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles
Speaking at the Forest Bend Ward, Salt Lake City UT Sunday, October 12, 2008
Even though I regularly have the opportunity to attend Fast and Testimony meeting, I don’t usually stand to speak. But today, I feel moved upon by the Spirit to share a message…
Last weekend’s General Conference was different than any before. We felt that down at Church Headquarters and have been talking about it all week. We live in troubled times. There is great financial crisis and we’ve seen something that hasn’t happened in the last 60 years: the world’s financial markets are collapsing. I was six years old when the Great Depression began: the 10th of 11 children. My father was a mechanic and times were difficult for all of us. Many families were suddenly out of work all at once. There were large public projects to try and provide employment – like the great ditch or canal I remember being dug here in our city. It was at least six feet deep and dug by hand, with pick and ax. Nowadays, we’d use a piece of machinery to do it. But in those days, people worked with what we had. They were desperate times for many. There were things as a child that I didn’t understand and was afraid of. I didn’t like to go into the basement of our home. I thought the Boogeyman lived there. But as I grew older and we got some lights down there, I realized that the great dark space underneath the stairs was a large pile of old shoes. As a pair of shoes we were wearing would wear out or break down, we didn’t throw them out. We would use a shoe from that old pile as spare parts to repair our shoes or make new ones. It was just the way you did things in those times.
There’s a scripture that says “Yet learn we obedience by the same things we suffer.” It seems sometimes that we don’t learn until we need to turn and rely upon the Lord. In the Book of Mormon, well, if you looked in my copy, in the Book of Helaman about chapter 12 or 13, you’d see that I’ve written-in a swirling chain of circles across the top of the page. It might look like old cursive, but that’s not what it’s meant to be. It’s meant to remind me of the cycles of the people. In times when they were blessed with great prosperity and wealth, they forgot the Lord. Then when they fell to bad habits which led some to wickedness and placed many in peril, the righteous would turn/return to the Lord in their humbler circumstances. It’s a cycle of prosperity and wickedness we see repeated over and over again in the scriptures and now again in our day.
I remember once I went deer hunting with Brother Tuttle and some others. We were up in the mountains, riding on horseback. He went up one side of the canyon, and I went up the other. As I was riding, I bent over and just nearly kissed the saddle horn as we passed a low cedar tree that was right by the path. Well as we passed the cedar tree, there was no more path on the other side of it and the way before us was just a dropping hillside covered with loose shaley rock. I kicked my feet clear of the stirrups, just in case the horse reacted badly, and it was a good thing I did. She reared up and I was thrown back. I hit my head on some rocks and got a cut right above my eyebrow that was bleeding heavily. I’d been holding my rifle in my hand and as my hand flew back and hit heavily against a rock, it broke as well. So I was laying there hurt and shaken. My companions on the other side of the canyon had seen what happened and I heard Brother Tuttle call out “Are you hurt?” I replied “Yes, I’m bleeding!” He called out again “Are you hurt?” I called again “Yes, I’m bleeding!”, but the wind was blowing the wrong way and they couldn’t hear me. The fourth time this happened, I yelled in response “No!” And they called back “Okay!” and continued to ride on up the mountain. That’s lesson one!
I finally got myself up, caught my horse down the mountain where she had gotten caught in some branches, and managed to get into town where I was bandaged up and my hand was tended to.
Shortly after that, I was traveling on business and was at the airport. A fellow traveler, an older man not of our faith, saw my bandaged hand and asked if I was all right. I replied rather off¬handedly. And he responded that it was something I would remember all the rest of my days. He then told me that he had once worked at digging a canal – now that caught my attention because I remembered the canal I have mentioned. He said that he was out of work at the time [the Great Depression] and couldn’t find employment. He saw the canal being dug and knew that if he asked the foreman for a job, he would be turned away. He saw a spare pick laying there, so he picked it up and started working. A short while later, the foreman walked by and, not recognizing him, asked him what he was doing. He explained to me that he told the foreman he was out of work and stated “I need to work. You don’t have to pay me, but I need to work.” Well, as you might expect, they worked things out and he was paid for his labors. We then proceeded to talk, this older fellow and I, and I have remembered his counsel. Now I am the old man giving counsel to you.
In the Great Depression, people were frightened and growing more so. They began to be very resourceful. They had to be. Looking forward, we’re all going to learn that lesson, one way or another.
The Church is in excellent condition. You don’t need to worry about that. But as individuals we will face difficulty. Some will come to the Bishop seeking financial aid and counsel. And as judges in Israel, the Bishop will respond. The time for financial largess in our ward activities is over.” [President Packer then turned directly to our Bishop and counseled him that last year’s youth trip to Nauvoo, which was, President Packer said, a great opportunity for testimony-building and missionary work, will not happen again. Times of/for that sort of expense in the Church are past.]
President Packer then shared experiences of providing aid and service after the great Tsunami devastated Indonesia. He recalled... “I was speaking on the phone with a government minister who said “I’m standing in Banda Aceh and you cannot imagine what I am seeing. A city of a million people has been swept away and there is nothing.” A week later, I was standing in area of Banda Aceh and the need was immense. “What do you need?” I asked. “Body bags” was the reply. So we found 20,000 body bags in China and had them on a plane the next day. A call came, “we need 30 [thousand] more.” We found them and they were sent. The next call “do you have any motorcycles? We need to get back into the mountain villages with aid and medical supplies, but the roads are gone. Trucks can’t get through and elephants are too slow. If we had motorcycles, we could get through.” “Are they to be found in Asia” I asked. “Yes,” he said. So we found the motorcycles and had them on their way the next day.
The Church is sound and is able to provide these types of aid as a back-up where there is need. We [as members and in our individual wards] are the back-up position of the Church. Learn to
apply the old Pioneer adage – “Eat [use] it up. Wear it out. Make do, or do without.” We’re going to have to learn to do without. Again, “Eat it up. Wear it out. Make do, or do without.” Even if we have the resources, we need to do more to be thrifty. Others will rely on us. The Church will rely on us. It is our responsibility and duty to be caring for ourselves, our family, and those around us. Be watching for need. Set something by that we can be of help to others when the time comes. Trust in the counsel of our wise elders/older people.
There are nearly 60,000 missionaries serving throughout the world today. The cost to support a missionary is right about $400 a month today. That’s $4,800 a year. Consider if we have the resources that there may be others who don’t and who have a need. When Brother Tuttle was a young man, he had a strong desire to serve a mission. But he didn’t have the money to pay for it, and his family didn’t have the money for it. So Brother Tuttle thought of who was the richest man in his town and, after saying a prayer, he approached him. A loan was made, a mission served, and the loan repaid. Those who need our help may not always ask us.
It’s about time the Lord taught us a lesson. A great catastrophe is coming. Now I probably shouldn’t say that because then it will happen. But it is going to happen. That’s what it will take to turn our hearts to the Lord. And we will learn from it.
Our prayers will be different, less selfish. The scripture says “If ye are prepared, ye need not fear.” Renew your prayers. You can [also] think a prayer. Carry a prayer in your heart throughout the day. Learn to pray for that which is of worth. Another scripture says “…do not spend money for that which is of no worth, nor your labor for that which cannot satisfy.” (2 Nephi 9:51) That can be applied both spiritually [to prayer] and physically. Use what we have. If something is broken, fix it. Our young people are going to see different times than what they are used to. To you teenagers, your life will be different. Things are changing. You will have to do without some of the things you are used to expecting. Don’t be afraid. Change your life to do without the extravagances and luxuries that you’ve expected.
Learn to pray. There’s a difference between ‘saying prayers’ and praying. A wonderful time is coming – it’s not going to be easy, and it’s not going to be short. But don’t be afraid.
Brother Tuttle was one of the Seventy when there were just seven of them. Now there are eight quorums of the Seventy called to go throughout all the world. It’s an apostolic calling to teach the gospel to every nation, people and tongue. They’ll know what to do and will lead and counsel where they are called.
Take care of what we’ve got. Begin to save. The rainy day is coming – in fact, the snowy day is already here [in reference to today’s first winter snow]. Reset our expectations. Give up selfishness. Wickedness is all around us. In today’s world, it’s not safe for children to be outside alone. We need to be ever watchful. We need to protect ourselves from the wickedness, avarice, and greed in the world.
Read the scriptures and the revelations. The guidance and counsel are there. Read with new eyes, and the scriptures, the Book of Mormon, will take on new meaning.
As President Bush and world leaders gather in the coming week and the weeks ahead, there will be no easy answers or solutions. Hard times are ahead and it’s difficult for them to see what to do. It’s important to listen to the Sprit. We are led by prophets and apostles. We can see ahead. We can be and are prepared.
I pronounce upon you an Apostolic blessing. Comfort our children. Little children can be afraid of things we might not think of. Comfort them and strengthen our families. Turn off the television and focus on family. Pay your tithing. The promise is there – pay your tithing and you’ll be watched over. You’ll be alright. None of us is exempt from trials. If hard times come upon you and your income dwindles, remember that tithing is equitable for everyone: 10%. If you have nothing, then it’s 10% of practically nothing. Pay your tithing, do what you’re supposed to do. You’ll be comforted.
Sure trials will come. Because of them, faith will increase. Happiness will increase. Security will increase. You’ll be glad to be alive at this time. It’s a good time to be living. To be raising children. I leave this testimony, counsel, and blessing with you in the holy name of Jesus Christ. Amen.”
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Monday, October 20, 2008
Some Much Needed Time ~
My Mom and Dad made a quick surprise day trip to see us on Saturday. It was so great to see them and spend time with them. I have had such a hard time being away from my Mom while she is dealing with her cancer, and of course their is always my lovely job that makes me CRAZY, so it was so nice to see them and not think about all the bad stuff. We really LOVE our ward here and we have some great friends, but nothing makes you feel quite as good as your Mom & Dad. The girls were so excited and did not want the day to end, but we will take what we can get, even a few hours. I was so caught up in making sure I soaked up as much of them as I possibly could, that I did not get one stinkin picture the entire day! Anyways we made a memory and I guess that's what matters most.
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Sunday, October 5, 2008
Hope ~

Friday was yet another emotional day. Mom found out that because her cancer was very aggressive, she will indeed need to have chemo. I have such mixed feeling about this. On one hand I really want her to be healthy and well, on the other hand it will be so incredibly hard to watch my sweet Mom face what she will have to face and endure all that comes with chemo. I feel like such a schmuck for being a baby and feeling so sorry for myself and my incredibly insignificant problems. They do not even Begin to hold a candle to what Mom has on her plate right now. But I have hope and I have faith that all will be well. I have the BEST support group a girl could ask for. I so enjoyed conference yesterday,I truly needed to hear so much of what was said. I was so lifted and spiritually fed. You are ALL my angels that were intended to carry me through some of the hardest times. My family and I will keep going, keep striving to be better, keep leaning on our savior to help get us through another day. I am so blessed to have the gospel in my life and I find great comfort in the peace it brings me.
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Oatman~
Gordon's parents and Grandparents came to visit us and we took them to a little town called Oatman not to far from where we live. The girls had a blast! It is a really old, country bumpkin kind of a town. They have wild burrows that roam through the streets . You can feed them carrots and pet them. One even stuck it's head in my bag! It was a lot of fun and we made some great memories!
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Another Tri~
Gordon completed another Tri while we were visiting St George. He did such a great job considering we found out about our boat at 1:00am the morning of, and he did not sleep at all the rest of the night. I know you were exhausted but we are all so proud of you babe!
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Wednesday, October 1, 2008
Admitting Failure ~
For some reason this is always very therapeutic for me and a fun way for me to journal, I will soooo not be offended if you don't take the time to read my rambling. Anyways, I was able to go home and be with my sweet Mom for a few days and then I had to go away on business. I have been gone away from my babies and my fabulous husband for a week. It was the first time in a while that I had some down time for myself to think and reflect. After being home for not quite 24 hours now, I feel this overwhelming feeling of failure. I am truly failing at what matters most in my life. I moved my family to a new place for what I thought would be blessings down the road, but I must say that I could of quit possibly maybe the biggest mistake ever! Going through everything with my Mom has really made my entire family stop and prioritise our lives. Suddenly giving so much of me to work and making money, doesn't seem to be high on my priority list anymore. We moved to Arizona to lease up a new property for the company we work for. It is not a desirable place to live by any means, but Gordon and I were quite confident that we could get the job done. Now that we have been here for a little over 2 months (it has felt like 2 years) I have come to the realization that the expectations of some of the owners far exceeds what I have to give. At what cost is all of this worth? When do you throw in the towel? Some people simply can not be pleased even when you try so hard. To add salt to the open sore, We recently got the boat out of the repair shop from the accident we were in our first week here. We had it parked in a vacant unit three doors up from our home. One of our fabulous tenants broke into the unit and set our boat on fire. I may have pissed a few tenants off back in Utah, but NEVER would any of them do something so evil. It truly never stops here, there has constantly been challenges and trials I never could have imagined. While Gordon, the girls and I have grown closer and stronger then ever, you get to a point where you say "Are you kidding me right now" ,"Seriously" and " what else could possibly go wrong". I have really tried to keep a positive attitude in spite of all that has gone wrong and Gordon is amazing at trying to keep all of our spirits up. But for today, I may just have to say I have failed. Maybe tomorrow will look brighter..... A girl can dream ... Right
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